Physical and verbal aggressions occurs consistently in children and teenager at school and many people have been affected by this. For this reason, bullying is the main theme of my essay. Bullying is any willful, conscious behavior intended to hurt another person, either physically, verbally, or by intimidation, isolation or cyberbullying.
Cyberbullying is a new form of bullying. It happens over the Internet by computer, mobile phone, or other electronic device. It usually involves nasty words or pictures about someone, or spreading lies about the victim on the Internet.
It develops when victims don’t defend themselves or don’t make known the fact because they are afraid and fear future punishments or damages. Victims usually remain silent because they believe that the bully can like them. In addition, victims think that teachers of school can’t stop the bullying once it starts and they neither want to worry their parents, nor betray his classmates. Even they come to reckon they are the problem of everything.
In general, bullying appears in all sorts of schools. It is not restricted by any factor of race, gender, class or another kind of natural distinctions. It should be differentiated between several types of bullying: sexual, verbal, social exclusion, psychological, physical, among others. In all these cases of bullying, there are always three main roles: The bully, the victim and the onlookers.
A huge problem seems to be taking over our schools these days. Bullying has become a major issue in our schools and should be a problem taken very seriously. Parents need to take action in putting a stop to their children harming others. Teachers also should be aware of what is going on in their schools and take immediate action before something terrible occurs. Bullying is when someone ...
As a rule, the bully has an provocative and aggressive behaviour, he can’t put himself in the position of the victim, he lives in an unemotional and unfamiliar environment and moreover the bully hasn’t empathy. According to experts, a child can become a bully when they want people to do what they want, when they likes control about other children and even if the bully has suffered bullying during their childhood.
Typically, victims haven’t skills to react to bullying due to his shame, conformism and furthermore, they are usually less social, sensitive and fragile than other people. As a result it causes them insults, threats, aggressions. Bullying tends to increase during childhood, peak in adolescents and then gradually decrease in adulthood. As well as, physical attacks are less frequent as children get older. In part, if intimidation continues until the last stages of adolescence, it may become a serious problem. Therefore, it should be solved as soon as possible in order to cause the smallest consequences.
First of all, it must convince the victim to asking their parents or their teachers for help and report the situation. If he doesn’t want to collaborate, the situation becomes more complicated. To help him, he needs to know that he can rely on the help of adults at any time and thus to overcome this situation. For this reason, it is needed support and friendship from friends, family and teachers. To this must be added the importance of professionals as a psychologist.
Unfortunately, bullying is a buzzword due to the innumerable cases of aggressions that there are currently in schools and many situations of adolescents and children that we see daily all over the place. The most important thing is not kept quiet and denounce once it is known. So, we can change a lots of victims’ life.