Respect Within and Outing “Charro” by Oscar Casares, respect is an underlying theme that ties the whole story together. It weaves itself in and out of each scene as if it were its own character in the story. From having the respect for family or that of someone’s personal space, it is a constant throughout. Respect has the most important part in life.
Family, friends, and acquaintances all need it. Humans have the tendency not to give respect all the time, which, without the presence of it, anger, hate and violence will arise from tension cause from its absence. Even though murder is not legal, others can respect a justified murder. When Marcelo was a teenager .”.. Valdez accused [his] father of stealing cattle, [so he] gathered his sons… [and gave] them each a gun…
[with] the first one to see… Valdez was to shoot him” (57).
When Marcelo’s brother shot Valdez nobody really took a second thought about it, with the exception of the law. The town all knew that Valdez was not giving Marcelo’s father the respect he deserved and he had something to do something about it.
The whole incident could have been avoided if Valdez would have just had a talk with Marcelo’s father rather than automatically accusing him of theft. Because Valdez did not give any respect to Marcelo’s father, he in turn did not give him any respect, but turned to violence to solve a simple misunderstanding. Assuming that people will always think the worst of you, does not offer the respect that they deserve. “Sanchez walked over again [without his son crying on his leg]” to ask if Marcelo had really seen his sons dog (56).
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Marcelo immediately assumed that Sanchez was accusing him of doing something to Charro, which he did do, but did not want Sanchez to find out.
Sanchez just wanted Marcelo to let him know if he does see Charro, for his son is distraught over the fact that his dog is missing. He was respecting Marcelo by giving him the benefit of the doubt, that he did not do anything to Charro. At the same time though, Sanchez could be implying that he truly believes that Marcelo did something to Charro, from that he has made several comments about Charro to him. He knows that he should not be accusing Marcelo, but there is the small chance that his intuition is correct. Once, again accusing or thinking that someone did something, is not believing in the respect that they should be given.
Forgiving those who disrespected us cause us to come to a greater good. Marcelo did not like the way his wife’s family treated him. Her mother would say, “that he was a dog catcher for large animals” (53).
This bothered him because “he’d walked away from [everything] in order to provide a better life for her daughter” (53).
He knew that if he did not take his wife to see her mother at the cemetery, then she would think that Marcelo did not care about her and her feelings. He had to forget all the negative things her mother said about him, when she was alive, in order to become a stronger person. The strength to overcome lack of respect makes one a better person in the end. Every time Marcelo attempted to kill or lose Charro he was not thinking of what it would mean to the Sanchez boys. He thought of the dog as a problem and only a problem, but not as a family’s pet that they love and care for.
It was evident that the youngest Sanchez was the most attached to Charro. For when they came over to see if he’d seen Charro “the boy was crying to himself and chewing on a piece of his father’s pants” (56).
Marcelo felt bad for all the things he had done to try and get some sleep when he saw this. He did not think of what the reactions of other people would be if he did dispose of Charro in some way that would grant him the peace and quite that he wanted. The respect he thought he deserved was that of a full nights sleep. Respect will overcome hate if the mind is in the right state of peace.
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Marcelo tried his best to get rid of Charro, but when his wife back over him, he felt guilty that the dog was finally dead. He felt the most respectful thing he could do was to give Charro a proper burial. “He tried not to think about what he was doing” (60).
He knew that if he did he would get somewhat emotional.
He hated the thought that he felt sorry for something that bothered him so long. Charro went from being the enemy to being the deceased animal in a split second. He gave Charro and the Sanchez’s the final respect that Charro and they deserved. Marcelo had found the inner peace that he was missing, which was the key factor in giving respect. Even though respect is just one piece of the puzzle to peace, it carries the most importance.
People need it to rely on others, for if they did not have it people would not care if what they said were false or hurtful. This would cause arguments and which can lead to violence which is never necessary by any means. We are all guilty of not giving the respect we should give, but that does make us human. For sometimes we make choices that are not the best choice we could, which ends up hurting us more in the end then if we were to have made the correct choice in the beginning.
