“Child Abuse” child abuse is a very serious and controversial issue that is escalating in today’s society. As we look back to the 1940’s and 1950’s, it was almost unheard of to let anyone outside of your immediate family know anything about your personal life. Every family was thought to be, or shown to the general public to be, the “perfect family.” Some schools had the authority to punish a child by either spanking them with a paddle or hitting their knuckles with a ruler. Child abuse is one of the leading causes of childhood deaths in this nation. Statistics show “every 4 seconds a child is abused and every 7 minutes a child’s life is lost” (Neglect 1).
We as a society need to work together to try to think of alternative ways of disciplining our children. A child is a gift from God and should be treated as such. I do understand that with the hectic life styles of today’s society, sometimes it just seems like life is a struggle and just too much. Spanking a child as corrective action is one thing, but beating a child, ripping his or her hair out, locking him or her in a closet, or verbally abusing a child is unacceptable. One solution we can consider is taking something of value away from the child, the child may consider this a worse punishment than taking a beating. In the year 2000, three million referrals came into the Child Protective Services agencies in the United States to research the chance of child abuse (Bureau 1).
The Essay on Investigation and prevention of child abuse
Child abuse is one of the most common human right violations in the human community. According to UNCEF reports, at least one child dies every day as a result of child abuse. Nevertheless, the exact number of child deaths as a result of chilled abuse is hindered by the fact that most cases of child deaths in the communities goes without investigation. Still, an estimated over 30, 000 child in ...
Constantly beating a child can cause immediate memory loss and / or brain damage. In some cases, severe emotional damages may not surface until a child reaches adolescence. An adult that has been abused may have difficulty establishing healthy intimate relationships and may be at a higher risk for depression, substance abuse, anxiety, flashbacks, and nightmares. We can look at the recent event that is shocking the nation. As I looked at the late breaking news on the of Madelyn e Gorman Toogood who was video taped after repeatedly slapping, and punching her daughter Martha as she placed her into her car seat.
I felt sick to my stomach. I remember the words as I watched the interview on Mrs. Toogood. She stated, “Martha was just being Martha, she was pulling the barbies off the shelves and hiding from me. Martha didn’t deserve what she got, I just lost my temper” (Taped Beating 1).
It is a scary thought that someone could bring himself or herself to beat a child in this manner.
I would encourage you to think about the following question. If the roles were reversed, would the abuser find it acceptable to be beaten upon? Parents who are committing these crimes need to think of that tiny, innocent child in the mother’s womb, so innocent and pure. There are many places a parent can go to get help with parenting issues. The internet is a good source to research parenting issues. The internet has numerous topics that may help in learning how do deal with conflict situations and gives advice on different issues, such as substance abuse, driving, school, allowance, chores, and working. We need to take action on child abuse issues and help parents find ways of controlling his or her emotions or tempers.
If parents do not learn to control themselves, the future might not be a place where a child is safe to come into this world. Another solution I have found which seems to be the best bet so far with pre-teens. is found on the Kids Contract website. There are 9 simple fill in the blank agreements you can make with your child about a wide variety of issues. These contracts are in a simple easy to understand language and give the child, in writing, the consequences of their actions if they do not follow the guidelines of the agreement (Kids 1).
The Essay on Child/ parent relationship in the Little Boy Crying?
The poem, Little Boy Crying, written by Mervyn Morris is mainly about father and sons relationship. Poet shows the two main themes through this relationship; fathers love towards his child and his effort to lead his child into a right world in life. Mervyn Morris explores the child and parents relationship by using second person narration and language techniques such as allusion and emotive words. ...
I am aware that there is a need for discipline in a child’s life in order to establish a healthy structure for a child to prepare for the future. The discipline should be effective. This teaches a child how to avoid repeating what he or she was disciplined for. A few examples of effective discipline include; using time out, ignoring annoying behaviors, and taking away privileges.
Parenting is challenging for everyone, and we all need information and support during each stage of a child’s growth to be the best parents we can be. We need to handle our children with love and gentleness. Always remember to catch your child being good whenever possible. Works Cited Child Neglect.
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Sept 2002. Lawyer Says Mother Won’t Fight Charges in Taped Beating. Page 1. Sept 2002.