General Purpose: To inform
Specific Purpose: To teach the audience steps to ridding their lives of an Ex.
Central Idea: There are effective ways to ridding your life of an ex, allowing you a quicker breakup recovery.
Introduction
². How many of you can turn on the radio, and find a slow song that reminds you of an ex? Do you ever feel that no matter how much time goes by you can never seem to leave them in the past?
II. Well today, I am going to show you ways to rid your life of an ex, so they you never have to look back again.
III. There are three basic steps to ridding your life of an ex. First i will show you how to write a closure letter, second how to clean your home free of memories, and third how to take the leap of acceptance.
IV. In the past five years i have experienced two very bad breakup with ex’s of mine, since then i have learned everything there is to know about ridding them from my life.
V. Though letting a loved one go, may never be easy, these three steps are simple and very effective ways of helping you get a start on a new life.
(Transition: Now let me show you how easy it is to rid your life of an ex, by first writing a closure letter
BODY
I. The first step to ridding your life of an ex, is to write a closure letter.
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It has been quite some time since I have last written, the more I learn about this god forsaken war the less I want to discuss it, however I know you are sixteen now and may see it a duty to follow my footsteps. So I am taking the time to describe the theatrics of my life in the trenches and the daily occurrences. Firstly I must enquire on the home life, how is your brother and mother? Has the ...
A. Transfer destructive and depressing thoughts to paper.
1. Tell them how much they hurt you
2. Point out all of their faults
B. Never once let them know they got the best of you
1. tell them that you are over the breakup
2. tell them they were not as hard as you thought to get over
3. let them know something good thats going on in your life.
C. Seal it, Stamp it, and Burn it (Do Not Mail)
1. Its always good to get these thoughts and feelings out of your system.
a. There is no need to reopen wounds you are trying to heal.
2. Mailing this letter could cause more tension in the breakup, and
take you back to the starting point.
(Transition: Now that we have the closure letter written, lets move along to cleaning your home free of memories.)
II. Cleaning your home free of memories is the easiest step to ridding your life of an ex.
A. Get rid of the reminders
1. Don’t just take down pictures, trash them!
2. Throw away all of the cutesy stuffed animals you recieved as
tokens of love for special occassions.
3. Burn the love letters
a. invite friends over to help
4. Buy new bed linens, so you are not reminded of intimate nights
together.
5. Freebreeze the house, to get rid of any sent, such as purfume or
colongne that they may have left behind.
6. If any of their personal property was left, trash it, Do Not Return
It!
a. tell yourself that if it was important, they would have taken it
when they left.
7. Take out the trash.
a. do not leave it sitting in there for a few days, take it out and
rid yourself of the temptation to retrieve it.
(Transition: Now that i have showed you how to clean your home free of the memories, lets proceed to taking the leap of acceptance.)
III. Taking the leap of acceptance is the last step in ridding your life of an ex.
A. Face reality, tell yourself it is over, and remind yourself often.
B. Do not daydream about them calling and wanting to get back together.
C. Occupy your time with friends and family.
a.stay active
D. go out on as many dates as possible.
a. falling for someone else, always helps shed memories of an old flame,
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and a good date can always take your mind off of a bad experience
(Transition: Now that i have shown you how to rid your life of an ex, you will never have to look back again, if you follow these three steps.)
Conclusion
I. Its never easy to let go of someone you love, but you can start by writing a closure letter, cleaning your home free of the memories, and taking the leap of acceptance.
II. Now i hope that the next time you are faced with the bitterness of ridding an ex from your life, that you will use these steps to a quicker recovery, and be able to put the past behind you at little easier..
