Is Love Really Blind? In our lives we all fall in love one day or another. That love can be painful or grateful. Sometimes, love blinds us. Blinded is when you don’t see or hear anything besides your own opinion on situation. Blindness also caused by our own thinking, if we do not want to feel hurt, we start thinking that everything is great and everything is going the right way. We tend to not see outside world besides our own imagination in which everything is perfect…
So what is the reason that people don’t seem to see outside world and tend to shut their ears when they hear their best friends telling them the real truth not what they put or imaging in their heads? Is it fear or are we trying to prove some sort of feeling, than what is that feeling? When my best friend would tell me about my relationship, I would just shut my ears and tell her that this is not really what she thinks it is. It’s different, she would than ask ok fine than tell me what it is. I never wanted to think about it until one day, I saw with my own eyes and no one had to explain to me nothing, I understood everything that was going around me while I was pretending and not wanting to listen to other people. If I didn’t listen to anyone than why would I want people or friends listen to me? You try to help your friends and open their eyes.
Just like me, friends don’t want any advice or help they want to think what they are thinking and not let anyone get into their thinking. It really bothers when you see what’s really going on and that person doesn’t want to listen to you, or says yeah ok whatever you say. When helping people you give up after, why help when they don’t want your help. Of course they don’t need help until they get hurt and they come crying to you says that they didn’t see it but at the same time they didn’t listen to others but why? It’s a known fact that people don’t listen until they get hurt first time, next time they will try to listen to others.
The Essay on Why Don’t People Help in a Crisis?
“Help! Help! I’m dying..!” Those were the last words Kitty Genovese had said before meeting her demise. In the reading titled “Why Don’t People Help in a Crisis” by John Darley and Bibb Latane, they claim that all witnesses in a situation are indifferent. One of their examples include the famous murder of Kitty Genovese in which thirty-eight witnesses looked at the scene more than once and did ...
Well, in the future we should tell people our own experience and others, maybe they will listen to you and try to prevent same mistake. If someone would explain to us before hand, we would at least know what it would be like and know the pain after all. Not to get that pain we would do everything not to get that same pain. Just as William Shakespeare said in his work called: ‘The Merchant of Venice’ (act 2, sc. 6, l. 36-9).
“But love is blind, and lovers cannot see The pretty follies that themselves commit, For if they could, Cupid himself would blush To see me thus transformed to a boy.” Some one else said that “Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes.” web.
