Ok, well firstly I think you should try and get in contact with him again and talk about it and see what’s good for both of you. I like how you have done the pros and cons I think in any situation it’s good to look at both good and bad sides of a situation, especially as on as big as this. Also with the pregnancy perhaps sit down with your parents and talk about maybe seeing a doctor and asking for some advice and if the pressure of it starts getting to you maybe see a counsellor to help you understand this situation that you’re in. Parties are a very popular place to get “knocked up” as they say or even getting STI’s. If you go to a party I suggest taking a condom or get on the pill or even do both, because the pill does stop you from getting pregnant but doesn’t stop you from getting STI’s and that’s one of our biggest worries as well as pregnancy, also try and keep track on how much drinks you take or how drunk your getting because the more drunk you are the less likely you’re going to know what to do in that situation and how to handle it more effectively. I would also go over the pros and cons and I think up as many that come to mind, no matter how many you have for each and after that maybe go even just sit down with your parents and go talk to a family doctor with them or maybe even a counsellor because this is a very serious thing but don’t stress out about it too much.