Parents and children are interacting with each other in thinking and behavior. In my memory, my mom influences me a lot because she not only teaches me in her style, such as observing people’s routine life, but also be a friend who can tell me to a right direction. Encouraging children to be independent, listening and respecting children, and being a good example for them are three approaches of my mom uses to raise children. The first approach of raising the child is to encourage children to be independent.
Most of people are from the only child families, due to the only child policy. Selfish, fragile, and egocentric are some popular disadvantages in the only child’s personalities. On the other hand, the only child rely heavily on their parents. My parents used to busy in their works, which meant nobody can help me if I don’t know how to take care of myself. In order to solve this problem, my mom asked me to see how people act in the usual. In my observation for a while, I began to know about how to cook; later, I learned how to wash and fold the clothes.
Gradually, I became a girl who can live without parental helping in my age. Although I have been forced to be independent, I am still grateful to my parents to provide an opportunity for me. As time passes, I get order, I am being more independent meanwhile I need more respecting and listening. Secondly, parents should listen and respect their children. Since my mom found me already a teenager, she was worried about communication. In adolescence, I began to have my own ideas which sometimes conflicted with my parents’. For example, school choice problem.
The Essay on Child/ parent relationship in the Little Boy Crying?
The poem, Little Boy Crying, written by Mervyn Morris is mainly about father and sons relationship. Poet shows the two main themes through this relationship; fathers love towards his child and his effort to lead his child into a right world in life. Mervyn Morris explores the child and parents relationship by using second person narration and language techniques such as allusion and emotive words. ...
My parents thought No. 1 Middle School was the best choice for me because it not only trained many outstanding students but also near our home. I strongly disagreed because I didn’t want to be an excellent student who always be forced into learning; also I didn’t like my parents to interrupt my study progress all the time. I needed more private spaces where I could be myself. The more we argued, the less patience I had. On account of it, I thought my parents had no respect for me, and they just focused on their situations not mine.
One day, my mom stroked my head and asked me gently “Why do you become such angry? Isn’t that good for you to go to a school near home? ” “But it isn’t the school which I want. I don’t like you force me to study. ” I answered. “So which school do you want? ” “I hope to leave far away from home, and I need more private spaces. I don’t need to be treating like a girl all the time. ” Finally, we made an agreement that I could go a further school, but I had to have good grades or I had to transfer to No. 1 Middle School.
Of course, I didn’t let my mom disappointed that. Soon afterwards, my mom loved to share her ideas and thoughts in our conversations; meanwhile she also listened to my thoughts. Sometimes, she agreed with me and asked my dad to join us. We got along better and better when we were listening to and respecting each other. Finally, as well as respecting and listening, my mom is a good example for me. Unlike some parents who say one thing and do another, my mom is able to do the same way as she speaks. For example, I didn’t like to read books in the childhood.
When my mom realized that, she began to read newspapers or magazines near me. If I asked her to play with me, she would say, “Mama is studying. Why don’t you begin to read your books? ” But my auntie is a bad example. She lied to my cousin that if he could have an A, she would buy a pair of shoes which he wanted. My cousin began to study hard for his shoes soon after he believed his mom. However, when he got A, my auntie didn’t want to buy his rewards and said he was responsible to study hard. Since then, my cousin has begun to suspect whether his mom lied to him or not.
The Essay on Education Students School Parents
EDUCATION Americans take their education for granted. Education has become one of the most important aspects of a persons. With seventeen years of formal education, a person can do almost anything he or she wants to do. Yet many in America take this for granted. Some American students today would rather not be in school. They would be much happier at home or going someplace with their friends. ...
I feel disappointed to my auntie’s lying because it not only left a bad impression in children’s memory, but also lost her son’s trust. Parents have their responsibility to perform the same way as they said and benefit from being a good example for children. My growth is related to my mom’s influence. Since my mom’s influence, I become a person who takes care of people’s opinions; looks for a balance in the argument; independent enough to go anywhere; will be a good example for my children in the future because children always follow in their parents’ footsteps.
