Why some friendships do not last.
Friendship is one of the things that makes life worth living.Some people say friendship lasts forever than love. Is it true? If it’s true. Why do some people lose their friendship? How can we know that friendship will last forever?There are some reasons that make friendship do not last.
First, selfishness is a reason that can make your friendships end easily because no one wants to keep a relationship with this kind of people. Selfish friends always think about themselves first and they don’t care much about you. They are hardhearted even if you need help, they will not help you or they just pretend like they don’t know what your problem is. Instead when they need something, they will come and ask for help. They are also bragging a lot because they think that they are better than you.
Second, the friends themselves may change. A significant reason that friendships often end when friends are apart for an extended period of time (for summer camp, college, etc) is that one or both of the friends change. I think it hurts less when both friends change, because then the breakup is more often mutual and so both friends get closure by both deciding to let go and move forward in their lives without each other. What tends to hurt most is when just one friend changes. One friend might change social circles, become involved in new social organizations, start to date, get a pet, or take on some other venture that consumes more time and passion. Again, a friendship can endure these changes, unless one or both of the friends for some reason decide not to invest the time and energy involved in the adjustment period. (For example, one friend might forget the importance of the friendship due to the high of having a new pet or might feel that the change is impossible to overcome when one gets married but the other is still single.) In this situation, breakups may not be mutual and so one or both friends feel betrayed and end up with bitter memories about what was a precious friendship to them.
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Third, conflict can also cause the end of friendships. If the flower is a fledging plant, one blow might destroy it just as sometimes relatively young friendships aren’t strong enough to endure much conflict. Even those amazing close friendships, where friends love us no matter what are faults are, need care when it comes to conflict. Sure, if a flourishing flower gets stepped on, it might revive on its own. Moreover, if it gets a little extra special care, it’ll probably bounce back as if it hadn’t ever been injured. At the same time, if a flower gets repeatedly trampled on, it’ll probably eventually break. Especially, the friendships that have been around for a long time can endure storms, and even become stronger for them, but most friendships have breaking points.
Finally, dishonest friends are one of commons reasons that make your friendship definitely inactive. This kind of friends always does something behind your back such as gossiping and taking advantages form you. These friends always unfaithful to you for instance sometimes they act like they are there to listen and understand you, but actually they don’t care and they can tell your secrets to anyone. Therefore, most people always want to keep their friendship with honest friend instead of dishonest friends.
In conclusion, there are may reasons make friendship not last.But it’s important here that you had better ignore all that.You have to learn accept, forgive and sympathize,so you have a permanent friendship.Don’t forget that knowing when a friendship is over and why it ended may help you build stronger friendships in the future.
Conflict is created from differences between individuals, institutions or even countries. It usually happens when people disagree over desires,ideas, motivations, or values. Sometimes the extent of these differences can ignite a fire that points to an underlying source of the real issue. These issues can be needs that were not met earlier and triggers a sense of disconnect or lack of value for ...