Let your spirit present
Have you noticed that people who always keep their feelings deep in mind are more likely to be ignored and even misunderstood; People always being Mr. Nice Guy are not welcomed let alone to be made a leader; People never complain about anything have to adapt to the tragic situation alone. All these facts lead to the conclusion that most of the time people want to hear your own voice and they tend to respect your true self especially in modern society.
A wide welcomed movie called The Joy Luck Club may provide evidence of it.
In this movie, several pairs of mothers and daughters tried to lead a happy life, which could be seen from the name of the club they built “The Joy Luck Club”. There were three pairs of mothers and daughters in the movie. Those mothers all migrated from China and gave birth to an American daughter. They all had misery experiences in China. As a result of that, they educated their daughters in another way hoping they could lead happier life. I admire the story of Aunt Lindo and her daughter Waverly most because it appeared that they were born to know how to obtain what they want wisely. And I like the stories of the other two pairs Aunt Yingying and Li Na, Aunt An Mei and Rose too. Both stories were about
Li Na married to her boss and was afraid to lose him so she dared not to say no to him which made her life a tragic one. One day her mother decided to leave and cut Li Na’s spirit loose. She convinced her to ask for respect and tenderness that she wanted from him with both hands open, and never come back until he gave them to her. At last she found another man who respected and loved her.
The Term Paper on Mothers And Daughter Care Mother Relationship
Catherine Ward-Griffin, RN, PhD, Abram Oudtshoorn, RN, BScN, Kristie Clark, RN, MScN, Nancy Bol, RN, MScN, University of Western Ontario Back to Main Page This article is a shortened version of a paper published in the Journal of Family Nursing (2007), 13, 13-32. The authors gratefully acknowledge support from the Marian and Chester Fish Research Grant from the Alzheimer's Society of London and ...
Rose married to a handsome man came from a wealthy family. She cherished him so much. And she always said “my love is not good enough.” as if to beg her husband to love her. And she tried her best to satisfy what her husband wanted. Gradually their life became dull. One her husband said to her “I would like to hear what you wanted even it was a disagreement.” With the help of her mother, Aunt An Mei, she was aware of the value of herself and won her husband’s love back.
Everyone has his or her style that no one can learn. So it is quite necessary for individuals to be self-confident and never be to afraid to be your real selves.
We can find other similar stories in our real life other then that movie.
Last Friday I watched the 3rd English speaking contest in our school. One of the first price winners impressed me a lot. Each time she showed out on the stage there were a lot of friends cheering loudly for her, as if she had already won. I noticed that when she was announced to be the winner some of her friends, clapping and cheering loudly, appeared to be extremely excited. So there’s no doubt that she is popular. Luckily I noticed she won this kind of popularity by being herself. During the Q&A, the judge asked “Do you think college student could keep a pet in dorm?” On hearing the question some of her friends let out “Yes” Immediately. I assumed she would run with the crowed. On the contrary, she said “Definitely No” and gave a good reason as well as a creative thought that there could be a special house for pets. And her answer was welcomed by those who shouted “Yes.” Is it unbelievable? But it is true that when an individual grow up they are expected to have their own thoughts and it is childish to run with the crowd.
Are you tired of being taken granted; being treated as a child; wanting others find your value? Find your value first, express your thoughts and let your spirit present every second in your daily life.
