Book Title: Adolescence The Survival Guide for Parents And Teenagers Authors: Elizabeth Fenwick and Dr. Tony Smith This book is exactly what it says it is a Guidebook or Manual for both parents and teens that offers insight and advice on a wide range of adolescent developmental concerns. Organized into convenient topical sections for both parent and teen readers, the text can be easily consulted when seeking advice on a particular issue, or simply read cover to cover. Either way, the reader will find a wealth of practical advice for both parent and teen. The authors approach their subject in a sympathetic and sensitive manner in an effort to ameliorate typical parent/teen confrontations. Sections intended for teen readers are highlighted in blue and written in a conversational style where the author is talking to the teen reader. Numerous quotes from other teens are interspersed within these sections to give the material a very user-friendly feel. Parents will find these sections very useful in that they provide a supportive and understanding perspective.
They give teens a chance to step into the shoes of their parents and ponder their situation within a wide range of potential parental concerns. The primary content of the book is intended for parents and goes into more depth than a typical teen section. Illustrated with easy to follow graphic organizers, the section intended for parents is packed with numerous case histories, tables and charts, questionnaires, dialogues, and issues common to families with teenagers. Of particular importance are the case histories, dialogue, and issue boxes. The case histories are taken from real-life situations and present both problem and solution for a wide range of situations. These stories present the point of view of both parent and teen, which the reader can compare and contrast to his or her own situation. They also provide insight into the probable cause of the conflict as well as explaining how the problem was actually resolved.
The Review on Section Of The Book Morgan Remy Sign
Book Report The book I am reading is called Drivers Ed. It is about a girl named Remy, her friend Lark, and her other friend Morgan. The first 25 pages of the book starts off by describing Remys family, which includes her mom, dad, younger brother Mac, and younger brother Henry. Then it talks about Morgans family. It consists of his mom, dad, and little sister Starr. His dad is going to run for ...
The issues sections present problems that parents and teens tend to argue about. Issues such as style of dress and friendships are written is such a way as to provide a helpful middle ground position for parents to take while struggling with a recalcitrant teen. The dialogue boxes present scenarios common to families dealing with teenagers. In addition to presenting a typical parent/teen conversation (such as playing music too loud or talks about drugs) these sections offer insight on how to discuss certain issues with your teens. Having such models to follow can be very helpful to a parent or teacher searching for the right words or ways in which to approach a controversial subject. In addition to the dialogue, the authors have also included advice at the end of dialogue sections that suggest several ways in which the stated problem might be reconciled.
The numerous tables found throughout the text provide convenient, up-to-date data on a wide variety of issues. Parents and teachers alike can make good use of these tables, in particular, the section in the first chapter dealing with physical development. Entitled Milestones of Early (ages 11 to 14), Middle (ages 15 to 16), and Late Adolescence (ages 17 to 18), this section presents various developmental milestones in the context of the consequence for the child as well as the potential effect on the family. Of all the issues and concerns expressed in this book, the only section which parents may find objectionable concerns chapter eleven sexuality in adolescence. The authors seemingly approach this subject with a no-holds-barred policy. They discuss all possible sexual issues, from the more innocuous dating and foreplay concerns to controversial issues such as homosexuality, masturbation and pre-marital sex. Parents with strong religious convictions may take issue with a number of the authors perspectives and recommendations. For instance, concerning the issue of early sexual experimentation the authors say: in itself earlysexual experience is not necessarily either abnormal or deviant early sexual behavior although it may shock or disappoint you should not be regarded as a major catastrophe.
The Homework on Teens Parental Friend Parents Who Give Their Teen
"It's okay what you do here. I'm a cool mom." That's a quote from the latest teen movie, Mean Girls. Most parents think that being their teen's best friend is something that will help them understand why teens do what they do. Unfortunately that's not the case. Parents who give their teens whatever they want at whatever cost are wrong. They are teaching their teen to spoil their own child in the ...
Pg. 127 Concerning homosexuality the authors say: you have no choice but to accept that this (homosexuality) is the way things are. They cannot help being gay and they cannot change even if they want to. (Pg. 131) On the issue of deciding to become sexually active the authors say: You (the teenager) are the only person who can make decisions about your body, your feelings, and your life. (Pg 132 in a section intended for teen readers) On the issue of safe sex the authors say: Probably the most important thing to consider before you start having sex is how to avoid unwanted pregnancy.
(Pg. 135 in a section intended for teen readers) On the issue of parental authority in relation to minors engaging in premarital sex the authors say: Your sex life is your own affair, but there is just a chance your parents may think its theirsFor example, if you know it would upset your parents to have you sleeping under their roof with a boyfriend or girlfriend whos coming to stay make it clear youll have separate bedrooms. (Pg. 145 in a section intended for teen readers) While religious families may take issue with these perspectives, it is important to remember that the authors have presented information based upon what current society is, and not on what it should be. Nonetheless, being both a parent and strongly religious myself, this writer finds it extremely discouraging to see no mention of planning for marriage in this book. While there are significant chapters on such mundane subjects such as Money Matters, there is not even one chapter devoted to marriage and family life. This is very disconcerting to see in a book that proposes to be parent-friendly.
The Report on Teen Issues
he Types of Peer Pressure Teenagers Face In today’s world, teenagers are influenced by many things. Some of those things includetelevision, music, and sports, but the most important influence on a teenager is their peers. Teenagers desire approval from their peers more than anything else. They will go to any extremeto fit in. When their peers do something, they want to do it, too. Teenagers want ...
This writer suspects that many parents, strongly religious or otherwise, may question whether the primary concern of a young teen considering whether to engage in sexual activity ought to be how not to get pregnant. This is like telling a thief that the only concern he or she should have is how not to get caught! It would seem to this parent that a chapter on How to prepare for committed love in marriage and/or The familys role in establishing a healthy and successful society would be equally appropriate. Given the seriousness of the potential outcomes of sexually promiscuous teen behavior, this writer cannot recommend this book as a manual or resource for parents. On the other hand, there is a wealth of useful information in other chapters. Those who value the integrity of the family would do better to simply tear out chapter eleven and use the rest of the text.
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Book Title: Adolescence The Survival Guide for Parents And Teenagers Authors: Elizabeth Fenwick and Dr. Tony Smith Date Published: 1996 Publisher: DK Publishing, Inc..
