Thesis: The Effect on being an only child on the child’s personality Literature Review: Before a child has friends they have their family. Everything that they know and love about the world mostly comes from what they see around in their house. Children usually find role models in their family most of the time it is the child’s sibling. Yet only children don’t have that experience of living with another child and begin to develop their personality and traits from what they see in their parents.
An only child’s role model is usually their mom or dad. Most of their time is anyway spent with them. Looking up to an adult rather than a younger being can really change a lot about the child’s personality. Only child are mostly known to be responsible and develop good language skills because they are around their parents so much. They may see the responsibility that the parent has and learn how to be responsible from that. They don’t have any influences of seeing a child being lazy and not listening to their parent they just see the work of the parent.
Also because an only child’s main person to speak to is an adult they learn how to speak more properly and are able to talk better because they are learning from an expert of speaking that will not make mistakes at saying common words. This is a great advantage later in life for these only children. (Brophy, 1989) Only children are also commonly known to become more mature faster then other children who grow up with siblings. Their maturity grows faster because again adults surround them most of the time. They copy what they see their parents do and they try to fit in and be like the parents. As other kids with siblings they would try to fit in with their siblings but only children have their parents to fit in with.
The Term Paper on Middle Child Parents Siblings Children
Biagetti 1 Erica Biagetti Mr. Bi sicca English II 22 December 1998 Sibling Rivalry "I had it first."No I did."You always have to get your own way."Mom, he's hurting me."You deserved it 'cause you started it." Does any of this sound familiar in your home It is natural and normal for siblings to be rivals. The wish of every child is to be the sole recipient of the parent's love and attention. When ...
(Koontz, 1989) As these only children try to fit in with their parents they also try hard to fill up the expectations of their parents. Most parents put very high expectations on their only child since this is their only child and all their energy and attention is on them. They have high expectations because this is the only child that can make them proud. Knowing this, only children have a hard time trying to be the best.
Only children have this pressure of being perfect for their parents because if they make a mistake they can’t say well at least I’m doing better than my brother or sister. They have no one to compare to. Everything they do will be watched carefully and never taken lightly. Being in this atmosphere though brings only children to be very motivated workers and perfectionists.
This is another get benefit in life for only children. (Sulloway, 1997) Being an only child though is not filled with simply a positive side. It can also be a bad effect on the child’s personality. The child being the center of attention all the time to the parents makes them feel very special and important.
They soon begin to believe that they may be the center of the world since everything in their household is revolved another them. They never have to face the problem of sibling rivalry so no one ever becomes more significant then them. Having all this praise and interest about these only children all the time will make them to be self-centered at times. Being self-centered is not a good trait to have because they have to be aware that there are other people in the world. The only children must consider how to care about other people and their feelings.
Living as an only child it is hard to learn these lessons because they have no friends from the start like a brother or sister to teach them how to interact with their peers. Nonetheless only children are not hopeless and once they head into school they learn their lessons of socializing with others. (Sulloway, 1997) I found great interest in this topic because I myself am an only child. From this research and project I learned many things about myself that I never realized. It was very exciting to understand why I am, how I am. I would have never have thought that being an only child without siblings really affects my personality.
The Essay on Baby Abandonment Child People Children
In the world today there are numerous single teen and young adult women having unwanted pregnancies. A lack of experience and maturity causes many of these young parents to feel frightfully inadequate in the face of their newborn child. Some of these people believe abortion is immoral yet also see putting a child up for adoption as an insurmountable burden. For this reason, there are those who ...
I began to understand that it does in both good and bad ways. I also was able to relate to some of the journals I read about only children. This project was a real learning experience for me. Hypotheses: 1. Only children are hard working and good students 2.
Only children are self-absorbed Appendix: 1. I am an only child yes no sometimes 2. I like to go to school yes no sometimes 3. I enjoy working yes no sometimes 4. I like to get good grades yes no sometimes 5. I take school seriously yes no sometimes 6.
Failure is not an option yes no sometimes 7. I put a lot of pressure on myself to do well yes no sometimes 8. I put work over fun yes no sometimes 9. My parents have high expectations of me yes no sometimes 10. I have a lot of friends yes no sometimes 11. Having strong relationships is important yes no sometimes 12.
I have a positive view of myself yes no sometimes 13. I care about how other people feel yes no sometimes 14. I care about what other people think of me yes no sometimes 15. I am a great role model for people yes no sometimes 16.
I believe I am very beautiful yes no sometimes 17. I feel I am important to many people yes no sometimes Instruments: Statement 1 is stated to see if the person is an only child. By giving out this survey to many children not just only children we can see the differences between only children and children with siblings. Statements 2-4 test whether or not the person likes school because most people who like school tend to do well at school. Statements 4-9 test whether the person is a hard-working student or not. Statements 10 and 11 test whether or not the person can have relationships with people because self-centered may not care too much about other people.
The Essay on Children in Foster Care
Statement: Upon ageing out of the foster care system, foster kids end up either dead, homeless or incarcerated due to lack of independent living skills and lack of knowledge about programs in their communities! Due to many children being so displaced and neglected, it is hard to provide for children because foster homes are overcrowded. Due to lack of financial stability roughly 20,000- 100,00 ...
Also in strong relationships you must think and care about other people this is hard for self-centered people. Statements 12, 15, 16, 17 test whether or not the person has a high view of himself or herself because self-centered people have very high views of themselves. Statements 13 and 14 test whether or not the person cares about other people because self-centered people only care about themselves. Works Cited Brophy, B. (March 6, 1989).
It doesn’t hurt to be alone.
U. S. News and World Report, 106, 54-55 Koontz, K. (February 1989).
Just me. Health, 21, 38-39 Sulloway, F.
J. (September 1997).
Birth order and personality. Harvard Mental Health Letter, 14, 5-7.
