The four pillars of life include staying connected, motion, nutrition and reduction of stress. In the novel, Beka Lamb, by Zee Edge ll, these pillars are examined. A novel about the upbringing and changes a young girl goes through. She makes some mistakes throughout her life but she soon realizes that she needs to alter her ways.
With the help of a close friend, considered to be like a sister, she is able to look at life differently. Their friendship helps them to transform. Beka is a young teenager, going through a tough time in her life. Her parents had enrolled her in a Catholic school in order to give her a best education. They want her to strive to be the best that she can. While at school, Beka became lazy and ended up failing her first year at the school.
Aside from being a poor student, Beka is also a liar. Rather than telling her parents the truth, she lies and as a result, takes a beating from her father. Her best friend, Toycie, tries to guide Beka onto the right path. Toycie is a few years older than her friend. She is now in fourth form at the Catholic school. As a child, she was abandoned by her parents and left to be cared for by her Aunt Eil a.
Characterized by her Aunt as a Queen, Toycie is almost the complete opposite of Beka. She is beautiful and studious. The quality that links them together is their ability to find themselves in bad situations. Their friendship had developed at a young age and has grown into a sisterhood.
As a job, Toycie took care of Beka and her brothers. From there, the two shared many secrets. Being each others’ confidant, they spent a lot of time together. They would go on walks and share their thoughts or ambitions with one another. They also had a system of checks and balances. When Beka was in trouble at school, Toycie offered to help her with her studies.
School College Job Parents
When I first enrolled here at the University of Memphis in the fall of 1998, I never thought I would ever be in the position to graduate. Finishing college was a huge goal growing up but it was also my biggest fear. But after three and a half years of dedication I plan to get my degree in the fall of 2002. Getting this far in college was not easy, it took encouragement from family, dedication, and ...
She also urged Beka to be truthful with her parents. In return, Beka tried to persuade Toycie to find help when she became pregnant. Beka was also there for her when her boyfriend refused to accept the baby as his own. In Toycie’s hardest times, Beka was always around, trying to help.
Because of their strong friendship, Beka wanted to be her shoulder to lean on. In the first few months of her pregnancy, Toycie became very nauseous. While at school, she was vomiting everywhere and Beka would run to her rescue. She would clean up after her and try and check up on her as much as she could.
The day that Toycie was expelled from school, Beka was waiting right outside the principle’s office and nurtured her when she fell ill again. Soon, Toycie became withdrawn and lost touch with reality. Being such a close friend, Beka had still tried to comfort her but she would not accept the helping hand. Although Toycie became too much to handle and distanced herself, Beka was still loyal and tried to reconnect with her. Until Toycie’s dying day, Beka still tried to regain the friendship she treasured with Toycie.
Bonds are also formed amongst the characters because they are constantly talking to each other. The Lamb family is always talking. There is a great bond between Beka and her Grandma Ivy. They share a room together in the attic and are very close. When Toycie first tells Beka about her pregnancy, her first response was to go to Granny Ivy. She knows that Miss Ivy is able to hold a secret and give advice.
Also, throughout the book, Beka is found spending a significant amount of time on the verandah with her grandmother. There they talk about the politics of the country. Miss Ivy also pushes Beka to attend political meetings about the People’s Independent Party, which she is an active member of. Being that they have a strong relationship, Miss Ivy also helps Beka with her household tasks and school work. It is evident that they hold a better relationship than the one that Beka and her mother, Miss Lill a, possess.
The Essay on Juggling Work, School, and Family
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Besides the connection between one and others, there is also a connection within themselves. In the novel, Beka is not connected to her inner self. She does not see her potential in being an intelligent, independent person. By not doing well in school, she is denying herself of personal growth.
Also, by lying, Beka is forming a distance between her and her parents. To be able to become one with yourself, one has to realize the flaws that they possess. After Toycie’s accident, Beka realizes that she wants better for herself. She begins to concentrate more on her studies. Although Toycie is constantly on her mind, Beka takes a large step for herself when she enters the essay contest. Being a repeater, Beka doubts her ability to win the essay contest.
To her surprise, Beka wins. This accomplishment brings her closer to her parents because they strive for her excellence in school. She realized then that she is bright enough to succeed and finds the interconnectedness that she needed in life. Motion is also present in the novel, both emotional and physical. After Toycie’s accident, she becomes introverted. Beka takes the change in her friend to heart.
Being the person that she is, Beka wants to console her. She realizes that she cannot, so she continues on her path. Even after her death, Beka tries harder to focus on what she needs to. She wants to keep herself active so she will be distracted her friend’s condition.
Her focuses are now on her school work and household chores. Physically in motion, Beka is being active by taking long walks. With her friend and brothers, Beka walks around Belize. This is the time when she gets to relax a little bit and talk to her friend. At the same time, she is helping out her family but watching over Chu ku and Zand y. Another important part of life is nutrition; someone cannot survive without food and water.
Regularly, Beka and her family have tea together. It’s a time where her family can talk with each other and catch up on current events. Also, three generations women in the house have a chance to talk with each other as they prepare the meal. When it is tea time, the family displays all of the different pillars, connectedness, motion, nutrition and relaxation. Tea time in Belize stemmed from the British culture.
The Essay on Family and Life Story Work
?In this assignment I aim to discuss life story work: which can provide the care worker, and care receiver a better understanding of each other’s needs, and provide the care worker with information that can help support the care receiver in the best way. The carer needs to possess certain skills sensitivity, confidentiality, empathy, trustworthiness, and have commitment to seeing the story to the ...
Belize, being a British colony, adopted many of the traditions of its mother country. Tea time offered a time for people to connect with others. It was a time where families could get together and bond. As mentioned before, women of the house joined together in the kitchen when preparing the snack.
Motion plays it part when the family is together and talking. Their minds are consistently moving as they discuss their thoughts. Also, Beka and Toycie usually took their long walks after tea. Obviously, the pillar of nutrition was fulfilled when the family has tea and treats. Lastly, the family was able to relax when sitting down for tea.
They were able to take some time out of their day to unwind. Beka Lamb is a good example for the four pillars of life. The different aspects are displayed in Beka’s actions and beliefs. She is full of life and without these pillars she would not be able to get as far as she has.
Still in her first form, Beka still has a lot to learn about herself and others. Everything happens for a reason and Beka has learned that her actions do have consequences. Although all consequences may not be good ones, she still has the basic foundations in life which are found in herself, her family and her friends.
