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What is the meaning of love for teenagers? Is it real? Or is it Lust?
In life, people fall in love in many ages. It is very possible for every person to fall in love regardless of age. However, there is a specific stage in life wherein everyone seems to want or feel love. They are talking about teenage love. Teenagers have this urge to love the opposite sex for the first time in their life. This is the time where most youth act out and when it comes to the matters of the heart, a lot of them fall in love. Teenage love is sometimes been referred to as not being real love. Experts say that feelings that the teens have for the opposite sex is mainly infatuation. This paper determines if teenage love is real or lust.
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Teenage love simply means love of teenagers. According to Crotts (2011), teenage love is something that everyone goes through in his or her life. Some people express their love and some people do not. The reasons should be shyness to express themselves, hesitancy or fear of getting rejected. Teenagers do have this lack of courage when it comes to love. Some people say that it’s too early to for teenagers to be in love but others say that otherwise (Crotts, 2011).
For example, boy courts a girl in an old-fashioned way, after that the girl appreciates it but later on she wants the boy to add more effort like being with her in order for the girl to know each other. According to Kuzma (2007), in her article What Is This Thing called Love? in Health and Home magazine, she said that you can show unconditional acceptance and treat a person kindly even if you can’t approve of some his or her behavior.
Is teenage love puppy love? Is it trial love? Is it true love? it seems that most teenagers are getting involved with members of the opposite sex as form of entertainment. There are some views from the parents. Some of them say falling in love is a bad thing for teenagers. They are not mature and they may get hurt when love is over. And it will take several months to recover. More serious is that they may have sex when in love. Due to their ages, they don’t have any capability to assume the responsibility for it if the girls to be pregnant, especially the girl’s parents complain. Generally the girls, who are pregnant, are the victims of this love affair.
So some parents may warn their children about ignoring their lifelong true friends for someone who was just passing through.
teen love is quite real because of their innocent young mind. The purpose of love is pure, not because of money, power, or status, or some things that have nothing to do with love. The motive of loving starts from human beings. Love is a fact of life, especially for teenagers. It is the thing that is important and central to human existence. It is not like the lights or some electrical goods which can be turned on or off. It is involuntary and automatic.
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Love is something that can be extremely confusing and frustrating. They know that as a teenager, love can be like that. The only way to begin to get a handle on love and to begin to understand it is to follow what your heart says.
Love during teen years, while they talk quite frankly and straight forward in a friendship, most of them are more aware of not hurting the partner in a love relationship. This can evolve to a degree of lies and even no communication at all just to protect their partner. There are also mutual expectations in a love relationship and more intimate emotions are involved than in a good friendship. A teen love relationship can be a great and long lasting but if there is no basis of friendship in it, the probability of sustaining it is significantly lower. There some legally defined limitations with regards to who can go into a teen love or sexual relationship.
During their teen years, they may experience physical changes that trigger emotional reactions. One minute they feel happy, the next time they feel down for no apparent reason. These sudden emotional shifts are due to hormones. Hormones are powerful chemicals produced by glands that regulate many body functions. Sudden emotional shifts are natural part of adolescence. Things that happen around them can affect their emotions. Their emotions also have a lot to do with what is happening around them. This is especially true during their teen years. Teens often experience sudden changes of emotion. Their hormones are partly responsible for these shifts.
According to Webb (2001), teenagers define love as a strong, complex emotion or feeling causing one to appreciate, delight in, and crave the presence or possession of another to please or promote the welfare of the other. When it comes to love, teenagers are too aggressive that in this stage, they make worse mistakes in their lives. It leads them to realization and sometimes teaches them a lesson. For example, in sidewalks, they will see many young mothers suffering the consequences of falling in love easily when in fact it truly was only infatuation because they let their emotions win.
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There is a need to divulge in this topic because there is an instance that teenage love leads to something unpleasant. It opens our hearts and minds to be aware of its effects, whether it is good or bad in order for the people to be aware on how is it to be used and treat love in an upright manner.
According to Webster’s Third New International Dictionary (1996), teens are the person whose age are from thirteen through nineteen, especially in a progression, as the thirteenth through the nineteenth years of a lifetime (Webster’s Third New International Dictionary,1996).
Furthermore, according to Merki (1999), during teen years, teens may experience physical changes that trigger emotional reaction.
According to Merki (2003), during teen years, things that happen around a teenager can affect his or her emotions. Emotions also have a lot to do with what’s happening inside of his or her. Teens often experience sudden changes of emotion. Besides that, According to Encyclopedia Americana (2003), during adolescence some emotional states seem to reach a new intensity. Affection, aggression, and fear are especially likely to cause problems. Furthermore, teenagers are too aggressive that in this stage they can make worse mistakes in their lives that lead them to realization and sometimes teaches them a lesson ( http:// saching.com/ Articles/ Teenage – Love – 8020.html.).
According to Crotts (2011), teenage love is something that everyone goes through in his or her life. In this case, Upson (2010) view about teen love is hard. Most people fall in love for the first time as teenager, is exciting, but there are many problems too. Some of the most common problems with teen love include a lack of maturity, different plans for the future and insecurity.
But, even though they have encountered problems, according to Crotts (2011), teens are very happy during this phase of their life, parents are very sceptical about teenage love and they always try to keep a check on their kids to know what they are doing and where they are going around.
According to Frances Sizer Webb, et al (1999) single people of all ages like to date – that is, to enjoy leisure activities with other people to get to know them better. In the latter half of the teen years, dating takes on more importance. Given these points, there are mutual expectations in a love relationship and more intimate emotions are involved than in a good friendship. A teen love relationship can be great and long lasting but if there is no basis of friendship in it, the probability of sustaining it is significantly lower (http:// ezinearticles.com/? Teen-relationships & id= 92778).
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According to The New Philippines Comprehensive Dictionary (2003), love is a strong, complex emotion or feeling causing one to appreciate, delight in, and crave the presence or possession of another to please or promote the welfare of the other. In addition to Santos (2004), in his article On Valentine’s Day in Life Today, love should last a lifetime. We must love in the fullest and love the person for what he or she is.
Hormones. Adrenaline. Pheromones. We’ve all read about the factors that supposedly cause us to be attracted to certain people, and there’s no denying that you can’t choose who you’re attracted to. But most people I spoke with, including myself, believe that real, life-changing love can’t exist without that unpredictable sweaty-palmed, stammering speech reaction — at least during the early stages. If this is true, 5
the success of a relationship is based on a physical response that we have no control over. Scientists have identified three chemicals at play: phenethylamine, dopamine, and oxytocin. They are secreted when we feel that initial attraction to someone and function like an amphetamine, keeping our mood elevated, senses extra alert, and giving us the urge to bond and attach to others. As these secretions increase, our attraction to the object of our desire intensifies, and we get more and more of those dizzy feelings. (http://www.thefrisky.com/2009-02-24/physical-effects-falling-in-love/) In addition, according to Tallis (2005) in his article Crazy For You in The Psychologist, states that the pain of being in love should be given more credence by mental health professionals.
The link between the brain on love and the brain experiencing mental illness is more than just the stuff of Shakespeare and The Notebook. Neurochemical and brain scanning investigations have shown a considerable overlap between ‘the brain in love’ and ‘the brain in the throes of mental illness. When people fall in love, they frequently exhibit symptoms that fall under several categories of mental illness. It is very important to think about the possible reasons that are responsible for this phenomenon. One of the most important reasons for teen pregnancies is the way in which adolescents are looking at sex. For a majority of teenagers, lack of appropriate sex education, and the portrayal of sex through the mass media results in an inappropriate and a rather careless approach about the phenomenon of sex in general which leads to the fact that teenagers look at sex very differently. Most of the teenagers lack the maturity and sound understanding about the phenomenon of sex and often get carried away in the moment. The practice of unprotected sex leads to teen pregnancies and further to teen abortions.
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Although some of the teens decide to give birth to the child, the process of raising a child at a teenage is extremely difficult and hampers many factors like the education of the teen, the financial concerns, and of course the psychological stress associated with theprocess. Teen pregnancies can also result from sexual abuse of teenage girls. Instances of teen pregnancies resulting from sexual abuse by sexual predators, or even date rapes have been on the rise. Dealing with a teenage pregnancy can be even more difficult in such cases, due to the emotional as well as physical trauma. The Internet might have been a great source of communication, but has emerged as an easy option for sexual predators to lure and victimize teenage girls. In some countries child marriage is practiced which leads to teenage girls being forced into motherhood at a very young age at which the girl is not ready for motherhood both physically and emotionally. (http://www.buzzle.com/articles/teenage-pregnancy-and-teen-abortions-statistics-and-facts.html) Furthermore, a new study done at Rutgers University explored what exactly goes on in our bodies during orgasm that makes us insane. Researchers found that our brains light up like pinball machines before, during, and after orgasm. But that’s not the problem.
The culprit for our mixed emotions is that pesky hormone oxytocin, the oxytocin doesn’t discriminate. (http://www.thefrisky.com/2011-08-30/ladies-be-prepared-to-fall-in-love-if-you-have-sex/#more-1379802) Correspondingly, The book, True Discipleship, by John Koessler, suggests essentially two strategies for avoiding temptation: prayer and avoidance. Prayer, of course, is the source of strength that we need in order to resist temptation when it comes our way. A good prayer life also solidifies our relationship with God, which in turn keeps His desires in our consciousness. What I mean by that is that the closer we are to God, the more we become like Him and tend to think in the way that He thinks. Then, when we are tempted, we are more likely to bring the principles of the Word to the forefront of our minds as deterrence. If we are close to God, our desire to please Him – and to avoid displeasing Him – becomes stronger. Temptation, most often, is essentially a battle within the heart – do we want the pleasure of sin more than we want to please God right at this moment? That being the case, obviously the stronger our desire to please God, the less likely we are to succumb to sin.
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According to Kuzma (2007) in her article What Is This Thing Called Love? in Health & Home Magazine, love is defined as care, respect, acceptance, forgiveness, and trust. It’s love when you can choose to care for another’s needs, treat others with respect, even when they may not deserve it, you can show unconditional acceptance and treat a person kindly even if you can’t approve of some of his or her behavior and choose to forgive, whether or not the erring one is repentant. Plus, you can choose not to recall hurtful incidents caused by other. Moreover, according to Kuzma (2007) in her article What Is This Thing Called Love? in Health & Home Magazine, in a broad sense, love is giving – giving of oneself to another without expectation of receiving anything in return.
According to Kuzma (2007) in her article Don’t Empty a Love Cup in Health & Home Magazine, love is something like vitamins. People can probably get all the essential vitamins they need if they eat a nutritionally balanced diet. But in case, it never hurts to take a daily multi-vitamins capsule. The same with love – it never hurts to give a little extra, just to make sure cups stay full. Furthermore, According to Santos (2004) in his article On Valentine’s Day in Life Today, love asks for honesty. Openness means being true, not hiding anything, unlocking oneself. To be open is to speak and express what is in the heart and most of all love means oneness in mind and heart. There is unity. You care for what the belove cares for you.
true love is about appreciating and respecting the nature of the other person for one’s own sense of identity or personality security. Ideally, you will have those things in place before you go off and “fall” for someone. (http://www.4therapy.com/life-topics/family-relationships/marriage/ what-real-love-2780) Besides that, According to Santos (2004) in his article On Valentine’s Day in Life Today, true love does not take advantage of the beloved. True love is not selfish rather it promotes the well being of the beloved.
According to Balckburn (2003), even though our language makes it clear that it can have broader applications, lust is often associated with sexual desire. Sexual lust occupies most people’s time. Furthermore, according to Fisher, et al (2002), the sex drive (the libido or lust) is characterized by a craving for sexual gratification and it is associated primarily with estrogens and androgens. The attraction system is characterized by increased energy and focused attention on a preferential mating partner. In humans, the attraction system (standard called romantic love, obsessive love, passionate love, being in love, infatuation, or limerence) is also characterized by feelings of exhilaration, “intrusive thinking” about the love object, and a craving for emotional union with this partner or potential partner. One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature – the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring.
Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one another’s happiness. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. (http://teenadvice.com/od/love and dating/a/3 thingslove.html.) Furthermore, typically love is emotional, while lust is more physical. But it can be hard to separate these two. Plus, in many cases, love and lust do coexist – especially early in a relationship. Lust just tends to die off, while love only grows stronger. This change often causes confusion for teens in young relationships. They tend to think when the passion is gone, the relationship must be over. In reality, that is when the true relationship begins (http://teens.lovetoknow.com/Young_Lust).
When a teenager falls in love, it is referred to as teenage love. Teens are very volatile people and this is pretty understandable. It is the first time in life to feel the urge to love the opposite sex. This is on the onset of their physical growth. Their hormones are usually referred to as running wild and this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a child. The researcher’s topic, Teenage Love: Real or Lust? opens our hearts and minds to be aware of its effects and how is it to be used and treated by teenagers which at this time they are in the stage of confusion and not mature enough to make some decisions. As the researcher’s gathered some of the necessary evidences to know what teenage love really mean.
We, stand that teenage love is real because of the following considerations or evidences: 1. According to Kuzma (2007) in her article What Is This Thing Called Love? in Health & Home Magazine, love is defined as care, respect, acceptance, forgiveness, and trust. It’s love when you can choose to care for another’s needs, treat others with respect, even when they may not deserve it, you can show unconditional acceptance and treat a person kindly even if you can’t approve of some of his or her behavior and choose to forgive, whether or not the erring one is repentant. Plus, you can choose not to recall hurtful incidents caused by other.
2. According to Santos (2004) in his article On Valentine’s Day in Life Today, true love does not take advantage of the beloved. True love is not selfish rather it promotes the well being of the beloved.
3. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one another’s happiness. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. (http://teenadvice.com/od/love and dating/a/3 thingslove.html.) 4. According to Kuzma (2007) in her article What Is This Thing Called Love? in Health & Home Magazine, in a broad sense, love is giving – giving of oneself to another without expectation of receiving anything in return.
5. According to Santos (2004) in his article On Valentine’s Day in Life Today, love asks for honesty. Openness means being true, not hiding anything, unlocking oneself. To beopen is to speak and express what is in the heart and most of all love means oneness in mind and heart. There is unity. You care for what the belove cares for you.