The novel Sula, is a work which contrasts the lives of its two main characters Nel and Sula. They appear, on the surface, to be the epidemy of binary opposites but this is in actuality their underlying bond. The differences in their personalities complement one another in a way that forges an almost unbreakable alliance. Sula is compulsive and uncontrollable while her counterpart, Nel, is sensible and principled. To prove Nel human by subscribing to the theory that a human is one who possess both good and bad traits, one must only look at how she interacts with Sula, here both negative and positive traits are evident.Nels “good” traits obviously come to the forefront when looking at her character. One might say this is a result of how she was raised and that she was simply a product of her environment. Nels parents married out of convenience rather than love and Nel was raised in a household of “oppressive neatness” (page 29).
Nels mother Helene played a large role in establishing her positive attitude and calm demeanor.
“Under Helenes hand the girl became obedient and polite. Any enthusiasms that little Nel showed were calmed by the mother until she drove her daughters imagination underground.”(Page 18) Although this would seem lead to an extremely sad existence, it was exactly this kind of environment that lead to Nels calm and reasonable disposition.Nels “bad” traits are as well hidden as her “good traits are evident. If there were one action in particular that might blemish the otherwise flawless character of Nel it would be her selfish behavior. This behavior is seen when Nel attempts to recreate the relationship that she and Sula share with someone else, instead of maintaining her relationship with Sula. Now instead of Nel and Sula joined to make one person, Nel and Jude “together would make one Jude.” (Page 83) Another of Nels negative qualities was how dependent she was on what other thought of her. The only reason Nel ended her relationship with Sula was because she felt she needed to be “needed by someone who saw her singly.” (Page 84).
Sisterhood is one of the most important thing in the life a black women. There are many different types of friends, the ones you can confide in, the ones you can depend on for support, the ones that you can go out and have a good time with. The problem with all of these is the fact that they can end. Sisterhood is something that goes deeper than that, it is something that is life-long and ...
Initially this statement appears to state that Nel wishes to become more of an individual, when in actuality it is only further proof that she is completely dependent on what others think of her.Nels want to be an individual while still needing to be judged and approved of by others is the single dichotomy which makes her human. It is the foundation of all human nature that humans are a gregarious species, they must socialize, live with, and be judged by others to truly feel complete while still attempting to be an individual.
It is this eternal battle that rages inside of all Nel which truly makes her human..