Marriage; a legal union of man and wife. In this day and age there are two different ideas of marriage. The first being a marriage based on love, and the second; a marriage arranged by a third party (usually the parents).
Although an arranged marriage differs from a marriage based on love in the after marriage life and husband-wife relationship, the principal differences lie in mate selection and social implications.
The arranged marriage is a contract between families, but not between individuals. Before the talks of marriage between the parents occur, each side’s parents investigate the others family background. They want to ascertain that the girl’s family is of the same class, is of comparable financial situation, is of good reputation, and has no hereditary diseases. If the parents are satisfied, a family friend acts as a liaison between the families and reveals the interest of one family’s child to the other. This go-between absorbs any criticism from the family, and also absorbs the praise, and gives the information back to the proposing family. Then the parents of both families begin to communicate and a meeting is set up for the prospective bride and groom to actually meet.
They meet in an atmosphere that they are accustomed to, or that they want to be in. The husband is generally chivalrous and courtship begins after the marriage. If the communication between the couple is lacking, the love match will result in unstable relationships. Caste divisions that plague Hindu societies are only promoted by such a marriage proposal. In an absolute love marriage the couples do not necessarily get introduced by their parents. When the love is strong enough, these proposals move toward a formal engagement even if the parents of both or either side do not approve. In cultures where arranged marriages are commonplace, the role of the female is a subordinate to the male.
For my opinion love marriage is better then arrange marriage. First of all I am telling you arrange marriage. If you are going with arrange marriage there is lot of question coming in your mind. Like what is the nature of your partner, you don’t know anything about your partner, and more important is that you don’t know her past, all that things creates a big problems in your life. But ...
The arranged marriage tends to be patriarchal in power structure: the wife is vested with the responsibilities of children and home, for the husband is responsible for providing and protecting.
A match made out of love does not need necessarily need to involve a man and a woman from the same caste or class. They meet locally as childhood playmates, adult neighbors, and roomates; and by chance in public places such as libraries, malls, bars. It surprises them because they thought they knew their partner.